My Charmers

Does anyone remember far enough back to the IVF transfer that resulted in Cameron? It was on St Patrick's Day 4 years ago. And he's still my lucky charm:


I made Maggie a super cute hair clip for St. Patrick's Day - find the tutorial here - but she wasn't cooperating for pictures:

Not even when I tried to take a group shot with Cam.

Oh well. They are still my very own Pot of Gold. Maybe a little crabby, but gold to me, nonetheless.

Trip Planning - the food version

The other thing I've been thinking about for the trip is snacks and food. I want to bring as much stuff as I can in an effort to save money and avoid meltdowns when the only place to buy food doesn't have what they want!

Something that each kid loves is to have their own bag when we are eating on the go. Early on, I would make the mistake of handing one kid the bag, and dumping the other child's snack in one of those snack traps. Mama! I want the BAG! MY BAG! (you get the idea). Someone gave us two of these reusable snack taxis that we use on trips and it solves all conflicts - each has their OWN bag. The minute I was given them I thought - I can make these! With that thought in mind, I bought some awesome Eric Carle Fabric and riptstop nylon.... and then didn't do anything about it for over 2 years. This trip gave me the kick in the pants to finally make them.

I made four, and I'm embarrassed to admit how long it took me to figure out how to make the designs be the right side up when you folded the flap over. It's a testament to how many hours I've been working - my brain is fried by the end of the day.

My plan is to make a few more of these in different fabrics. Maybe some smaller ones too - for raisins or M&Ms. And then stuff them with snacks, and have the rest of the big bag in my luggage for the rest of the trip. I know Jen did a whole post on trip snacks (and I'm hoping she'll link to it in the comments) - but I'm planning the following: goldfish, animal crackers, raisins, trail mix, pretzels and grapes. Which them makes me think they'll be thirsty and begging for drinks all the time. Hmmmm.

Trip Planning

I just lost this whole post. Very, very angry. I will try to re-write, and re-link. But grrrrrr.

2 weeks until our trip! Once we get there, I'm not worried about entertaining the kids. We are going to be on the go for the 2 full days that we are there! The train ride, on the other hand.... that is 7 hours (x 2) that could go horribly wrong. I know plenty of your out there have done trips like this, and I want to tell you my plans and see if they are approved by my internet buddies.


For entertainment on the train, my plan is to let the kids fill up their little backbacks (Maggie has this one, Cam has this one) with a few toys, their blankies, and one stuffed animal. I've gotten a bunch of great ideas from other moms (laminate a piece of paper with things to look for out the window of the train and let them mark them off with a wipe off marker when then find them, sticker books, etc) but I see those as things that will entertain for 10 minutes and them I'm left with carrying them around. My goal is the least amount of stuff, the better.

My plan? Be that mom that entertains with screen time. My secret weapons will be a portable DVD player with two screens, headphones for each kid, and iPod touches for each (aka our old Iphones). And pray that I can wean them off using them by explaining they are just for the train... after I get home, with Aaron's help!

I researched a bunch of apps for the iPhone - and here is my list of favorites - starting with the most favorites. Most of these are apps you have to pay for, which I did on purpose. I find the ones with ads have the kids handing me back the phones to 'fix' after they've clicked on an ad. Trying to avoid that at all costs.

• Preschool Monkey Lunchbox. By far the best designed app. Shape matching, color games, counting - and it moves the kids through instead of needing them to 'restart' the game. Cam played with this for 45 minutes this morning while I got ready for work.


• Alien Buddies. Cute animation, fun games.


• Interactive Alphabet - good for both kids


• Wheels on the bus - come with high recommendations and I see why! Fun to play with, both kids liked it


• Peekaboo barn - Maggie LOVED this one. Again, Mama, again!


• I hear Ewe - just a noisemaker app, but they both loved it.


• Up with a fish! You catch things on the Cat in The Hat's head, by tilting the phone. Cam loved it.


• Preschool Adventure Island. No one tried this one yet - but looks like fun


• Magic Piano - seems a bit advanced for my kids - but I tried it and it is fun.


• Shape Puzzle. Haven't tried, but looks fun


• MRUN Junior. Makes fun pictures, but I can't figure out how to get to the menu screen once you make a picture, which is annoying


• My Very First App - Based on Eric Carl's art - you pay for the app and get 2 games, and then the other 3 games are .99 each. It doesn't appear to me that the purchase goes up to the cloud, as I synced the iTouches and they didn't get them. Which pisses me off.

I also got a bunch of interactive Dr Seuss books - they are on sale this week (probably because of his birthday?) and Cam LOVES 'reading' those.

Any apps you guys love? I think I need some more Maggie apps.

Things I want to share

I've got a list of thing that I have done or found lately that I want to share with my internet buddies.

First, a great suggestion for lice avoidance. I somehow made it through my childhood without getting lice, and I would VERY much like it it to be that way with my kids - especially after hearing one of my girlfriends struggles with getting it out of her house. I got a recommendation for Fairy Tales Rosemary Repel leave in conditioner - and we are trying it. With Maggie's curly hair, I need to use leave in conditioner every day anyway, might as well be one that does something useful.

Second, ever since the twins were born, I've been having trouble with dry scalp. SO annoying. Someone recommended Newton Labs Hair-scalp drops, saying it worked wonders for her child's cradle cap. I'm picking some up today and really hoping it works. It claims to work for adults too.

I saw the Lorax this weekend - and I declare that everyone should take their kids to this movie. Super fun.I'm even going to say that when this comes out on DVD I'm going to buy it - and I don't often say things like that.

And finally, I am sharing with you the most delicious banana bread recipe. I got this from a friend, and it's just selfish to keep it to myself, it's that good.

1/2 cup butter
1 cup sugar
2 eggs
1 tsp vanilla
1 cup mashed bananas
1/2 cup chopped nuts (I usually skip this)
1/2 sour cream or yogurt (I use any kind of yogurt - even the flavored kind)
1 1/2 cup flour
1 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp salt

Combine butter, sugar,eggs, vanilla, bananas, nuts, yogurt, flour, baking soda and salt - one at a time. Beat after each addition.Pour into a greased and floured 9x5 inch loaf pan or muffin tins. Bake the loaf for 45 minutes (I usually end up needing an hour) or 20 minutes for the muffins at 350.

I'm pissed at myself because I made it this weekend and tripled the recipe as I had that many ripe bananas... and I only doubled the eggs. The bread is 'ok' but not super duper delicious. So sad.

Friday Night Leftovers

• Man! Crazy week at work. I'm glad it is over, but very frustrated with a new team member. Came highly recommended and if asked my opinion right now? I would suggest firing him. Bad place to be two weeks away from a large release. But I think everything is fixed now.


• I'm getting more and more excited for my trip to DC. I've been watching the Bloom Watch - and I think we should be going at a good time!


• Tomorrow, I'm taking the kids to see the Lorax. I'm probably more excited to see this movie than the kids will be - and they will be VERY excited because they love seeing movies in the BIG screen. I just love love love Dr. Seuss.


• We finally got some snow here in the last few days, and then kids have been out playing in it every chance they get. It's a blast. It was even the right kind of snow for a snowman.


• We are playing a trick on my mother this weekend. At her house, she had a large tree taken down a few month ago, and has been saving the wood for us (we have a fireplace that we use about once a week). She has been stressing out that someone will steal it (she lives on a busy street and the wood is in the front yard). Aaron has had trouble getting the time to go, and is finally able to go tomorrow. But Mom isn't going to be home. We were about to call and tell her we were coming, but then thought we could mess with her a little. Aaron is going to take the wood, fold up the tarp and leave a note on her steps that just says THANKS! And then we'll wait for her call. Heh heh.


• Aaron and I have a pretty traditional separation of work in the house - I do the cooking (mostly), cleaning (via a cleaning lady, but hey, it is what it is) grocery shopping and laundry and he does the outside work. But the rule is, I don't do HIS laundry, as he lost that privilege a few years back when he tried to tell me how to do his laundry. Don't like the way I do it? Do it yourself, buddy. Anyway, his new ploy to get me to do it? He throws it all in the washer and run it the day before I work from home. So I open up the washer and find a pile of wet, stinky laundry. Must. Not. Kill. Husband. By doing that, he knows he'll at least get me to push it through to the dryer.


• Another Aaron pet peeve. I will often take a benadryl to fall asleep - both Aaron and the dog snore (Must. Not. Smother. Husband), so I end up laying in bed and not sleeping, and the later in the night it gets the crazier my head gets... and that gets ugly. So to avoid it, I take a couple benadryl, and usually pass out. Anytime Aaron sees me doing this, he gets mad and says I shouldn't be taking something to sleep. So, when I went for my yearly check up this week, and asked my doc. And she agreed with Aaron. Damn it. So, now I've stopped taking it, and am trying to practice better sleep habits. Sigh. Boooooo. I say better living through pharmaceuticals...but honestly don't think I need 'real' sleeping pills.

Am I crazy?

Well, wait. We already know the answer to that question. Yes.

For as long as I can remember, I've wanted to go to Washington, DC to see the cherry blossoms. I started looking into it about 5 years ago and brought it up to Aaron - he was completely uninterested. He has family down there - so it would be a relatively inexpensive trip - I'd just need to get there. But Aaron wasn't into it. And it wouldn't be fun alone.

But now, my mom is retired. She loves Washington, DC. So the two of us, along with the kids, are taking the train (8 hours!!!) from Boston to DC to see the cherry blossoms. Aaron thinks I'm being silly to take the kids...but I think it will be a blast.

We are taking the train on Wednesday the 21st - it's an 8 hour train ride, so we arrive there at 4:15 in the afternoon. Depending on how much luggage I have, maybe we'll look around when we get there. And also depends on the blossoms. I'm taking a bet that they are early this year. But we'll be there for 2 full days (leaving Saturday morning) - so I'm hoping to see the zoo, the blossoms, the air and space museum and the Natural History museum. Any one been there with little kids? Advice? Must sees?

I'm hoping that Maggie will nap in a stroller - I'm planning on bringing a double stroller. It'll be interesting! No matter what, I'll have a good story to come out of it, lol.

Weekend in pictures

We had a BLAST at the cabin. The kids love, love, love my mother. We got up a little later than usual, and drove to that children's museum I talked about (The Amelia Park Museum). What a great place. I would highly recommend it if you are ever in the area!

Then we made our way up to the cabin. Maggie took a nap, and Cam had 'quiet' time. Which was mostly running around checking out everything. When he finally settled down, he asked my mom to play cards with him. Which is a heart melter in my mom's book. Her father used to play cards with all us grand kids all the time - you started out with War as a little kid, moved up to Go Fish, and then it was Rummy 500. And even if you were 3, you were expected to flip the cards right, not cheat, and play until Grandpa won, lol.
Cam is really getting the hang of it - it's a fun card game with kids - because they get to 'win' with each flip of the card.

By the end of the day, Cam was totally ready to pass out. He was completely overtired, and both kids fell asleep by 6:30. Which, of course, meant a 5:30 AM wake up call. Mom took the kids and watched after them while I slept a little longer. She was totally wiped out by the time I came out of my room 2 hours later. The kids had her read them every single book in the house, twice:

They insisted on having 'Circle time' and teaching Henry about polar bears (Henry is SUCH a good dog. He just laid there and watched the kids chatting away to him for about 30 minutes)

And finally, we all went outside for a hike! In the WOODS! Maggie loved it - she kept clapping her hands and yelling ADVENTURE!

My mom just finally made the decision to truly retire. She is selling her main house, and moving up to the cabin. Which is a great decision in my mind. She will have lots of free time to spend with the kids, and not as much stuff to worry about. And now that we only have one dog, it's reasonable for her dog to come and stay at our house. A win-win all around.